The gingham dog and the calico cat

In other families, kids learn to play ball from their parents, or to fish, or to dance. In ours, we learned to be poets. And the Davie/Buswell history runs parallel with the poets Americans (used to…) love, hold in high esteem, and name their schools after.

—Not that we today are all that prolific, but writing is still a regular part of our lives.

There is a book I’m thinking about replacing. Poems Every Child Should Know. Replacing because it is so worn, so loved, so crumbling with age and use and thousands of page-turnings, that if we hold it much longer, it’ll be a goner.

The intro is dated 1904, by Mary E. Burt of The John A, Browning School.

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There are very few images included; we see a _color_ frontispiece and a lovely drawing of lily of the valley.

And I love Kipling’s verse on those who talk to butterflies:

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True Royalty

There was never a Queen like Balkis,
⁠From here to the wide world’s end;
But Balkis talked to a butterfly
⁠   As you would talk to a friend.
There was never a King like Solomon,
⁠   Not since the world began;
But Solomon talked to a butterfly
⁠   As a man would talk to a man.
She was Queen of Sabaea—
⁠   And he was Asia’s Lord
But they both of ’em talked to butterflies
⁠   When they took their walks abroad.

(When this book was published, Kipling was still alive.)

A few years ago, I made a “harness” of thread, to keep the covers together and on the inside pages.

 

1873, “My Dear Mame”

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End of May, 1873

Mom’s grandparents Mary and James M. Buswell are living in Independence, Iowa, where he is a furniture dealer and carpenter. He had a rough start, but business seems to be more solid at this point, and he is paying back some of the money he borrowed from his brother Charles, back in New Hampshire.

James and Mary have two small children and a brand new baby. He calls his wife “Mame,” as her siblings do.

He travels north, headed for Sioux Falls, to check out the prospects for relocating to where he would have his own furniture business. The situation seems favorable in Elk Point, Dakota Territory—not a state, yet.

J.M.B. writes home to Iowa, to report on what he has found. (Within two years, the family will be living in Elk Point.)

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Elk Point, D.T.

May 27th, ’73

My Dear Mame,

I arrived at this place yesterday before noon and thought I would stop and look around town a little before proceeding to Sioux Falls.

I made the acquaintance of some of the business men of the place and ascertained that there’s no one keeping a stock of furniture here and commenced to talk about the chances for that kind of business here. They all seem to think that anyone that would keep a stock of furniture here would have a brisk business and make good profits, and as far as I can ascertain, the prices they pay for furniture and the amount of furniture needed to supply the people here and coming in I can do better to move my stock here and continue the furniture business than I can to go any further and carry out the plans I had when I left home.

Lumber & wood is cheaper here than it is in Independence and I can rent a store at a reasonable rate as I can in Independence almost any place except the one I now occupy. I can lease a lot to put a store onto for fifty dollars for three years and I need not pay anything the first year.

The business men all seem anxious that I should come here and come at once before someone else occupies this ground. And taking everything into consideration I don’t think I can do better than to move my stock here at once.

If I really decide to do so, I shall send for a part of it before I return home and perhaps not be home quite as soon as I expected when I left home.

Write to me and let me know how you are getting along. Hope that you are able to be about again by this time.

Kisses for Willie, Lena, & Baby Brother.

With much love to Dear Wife, from your affectionate Husband,

J.M. Buswell

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Many antique photos, CdVs, cab cards

buswell_famOver the last week or so, I have scanned dozens of antique photos from mom’s family archives. The Davie family are her paternal relatives, and the Buswells the maternal clan.

WALES connection to Buswell/Davie family

Coincidentally, we have Davie and Davies ancestors and relatives, and connections to a Davis++ family also. And first names were ‘re-used’ down the generations. This gets confusing at times. (That’s why I’m writing this down as a narrative.)

Once upon a time, there was a young couple who were born in Wales at the end of the 18th century. They had two small children. The mother and father were Mary and William, and the daughter and son were Maria and William. Little William was about two years old when that Davies family emigrated from Wales to Pennsylvania, USA. Later, the couple had two more children.

It appears that the parents may have returned to Wales at least once.

The boy, William Davies, grew up in/near Wilkes Barre, and married Phoebe Ann Finch. In their first twenty years together, it seems they had nine children. (Not all sources list all of them…)

William died in 1886, age 70; Phoebe died in 1889, age 68.

These are the Davies siblings we know of, and we have photos of several of them:
Sarah E.   b. 26 Oct 1840   m. Winegar
Mary Louisa*   b. 20 Jan 1843   m. Buswell***
Harriet A.   b 10 Jun 1845   m. Polsue **
William D.   b. 16 Jan 1848   m. Alice Raines (?)
Thomas J.   b. 10 Aug 1850   d. age 15
Cecelia J.   b. 11 Jul 1852   m. (?)
James C.   b. 14 Nov 1854   m. (?)
Julia L.   b. 13 Jan 1857   m. Mueller
Effie   b. 1861 (?)   m. Bissell

*Mary Louisa Davies married James Murdock Buswell. The Buswell family history is mostly in New Hampshire. They were the parents of Lillie Buswell Davie, my maternal grandmother.

THIS IS LILLIE BUSWELL WITH HER HUSBAND, EDWIN LORIMER DAVIE.

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Mary Buswell is buried in Woodlawn Cemetery in SF.
Jas. M. (a G.A.R. veteran) is buried in Leavenworth Nat’l Cemetery, Leavenworth, KS.

** Several Polsue family photos were in a smaller antique Buswell album. (If we can find some Polsue/Davies descendants, they should have these.)

*** There were eight Buswell siblings.

Jacob P. Buswell was a brother of Jas. M.
Charles Henry Buswell was a brother of Jas. M.
FYI: Mary Ellen was their youngest sister, so her daughter, ‘Cousin May’ Coult was a niece of Jas. M. and cousin of Lillie and her sibs.

++Another sister, Sarah Hale Buswell married Joseph L. Davis. (They were parents of the twins Cora and Clara, and older sister Colista. So the ‘C-girls’ were also Lillies’s cousins.)